Thursday, March 13, 2014

Empathy

Definition of Empathy: the feeling that you understand and share another person's experiences and emotions: the ability to share someone's feelings. 

Empathy is a word that we don't hear often. Empathy is a trait that is rare in my opinion. We have to pray for empathetic hearts for ourselves and others. This is not a trait we are born with. I think sometimes we believe we are being empathetic, but we are not. We like the appearance of it more. One of the best ways to understand empathy is to reverse the situation and imagine what that feels like, or if it would hurt your heart. 

When I read the gospels now I recognize empathy far more than I did before. Christ showed great empathy to sinners that recognized their failings and sought grace from him. He was empathetic to their struggles, their fears, their pain, and suffering because He wanted to share it with them. He knew their hearts were repentant. He humbly walked with us to share our journeys. 

The Holy Spirit and the mystery of how it connects us is a great example of empathy. When we become beloved brothers and sisters in Christ we are connected not only to the father, but to each other. We are called to share in our burdens and trials without judgment. We are to hold each other up whether, or not we understand the trial.

Empathy in my opinion has a lot to do with "we reap what we sow." authentic empathy is our willingness to share in a struggle, or stand by someone no matter how long it takes. Praise individuals that have that gift. God has nurtured that in them and He is glorified by it. 

Every authentic follower of Christ knows they struggle with something. If we don't think we do then we are blind in our journey with Him. 

 “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12

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